The first step to becoming a swinger is to be open-minded and willing to try new things. Swinging is not for everyone, but if you can get past the stigma of it, then you might just like what you find. A lot of people are nervous or scared at the thought of swinging because they think it would mean they have to do something they don’t want to do, but that’s not true. Swinging is all about having fun and enjoying yourself with other people who are also there to have fun. You don’t have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable—you’re in charge of your own body!

The second step is finding a good couple who wants to swing with you. There are lots of websites out there that specialize in helping couples find new partners for swinging. These sites can be very helpful because they make it much easier for couples looking for other couples (or singles) in their area so they can meet up and start playing together right away! Look through these websites for a few minutes until you find someone who seems like a good match for your personality and interests; then send them an email telling them about yourself and why you think this could work out well between

How To Become A Swinger

1. Couples who swing must be unhappy in their relationship. Actually, quite often the opposite is true. Research shows that couples in swinging relationships are often happier in their marriage than their monogamous counterparts.
2. Married couples that swing will often get divorced because it never works out. Again, the divorce rate amongst swinging couples is lower than those found in monogamous relationships. Much of this is because couples that swing often have better communication with one another and are happier in their relationship with one another.
3. Couples who swing don’t have sex with one another. Couples who swing see their sexual partners as an enhancement to their primary relationship. They do not need these other partners to have sex or enjoy sex with their primary partner.
4. Couples who swing must be morally corrupt. Research has shown that couples who swing are more open minded and are less racist, less sexist, and less heterosexist. Research has also shown that many couples who swing attend church and there are very few with criminal records or the like.
5. Couples become swingers because one or both of them is a sex addict. This just simply is not true. While there may certainly be couples where by one of them is classified as a sex addict, this is not true in the vast majority of swinging couples.
6. Couples who swing are saying that cheating is okay. Absolutely not, couples that swing have between them a set of rules that they discuss on a regular basis and change as needed. For example, both must agree to being okay with swapping partners with another couple. If one of the people in the relationship decides to sleep with the couple against their partner’s wishes, it is considered cheating. Another common rule with swinging couples is that both must be present at all times. If one of them has sex with someone that is not their primary partner and their primary partner is not present, this would be considered a violation of the rules.

Swinging is not for everyone. It should never be a tool utilized as a last ditch effort to “save” a relationship. Most couples who start to swing are already in a happy relationship and are just wanting an enhancement. And the vast majority of both men and women report an increase of happiness and satisfaction in their relationship after they start swinging. The lifestyle requires being able to be completely open and honest with your partner. It requires a ton of trust and above all it requires constant communication. A situation may arise where one of the partners is not okay with what transpired and they must feel comfortable talking about what went wrong and how to fix it.

The aforementioned couple that came into session had, in fact, done so much “right.” They talked about it to great lengths before they even met another couple. And they continue to talk to each other to great lengths. They have rules set in place with the knowledge that at any point one of them may pull the plug on this lifestyle and it would be okay. They absolutely love each other and their relationship comes before any other sexual relationship. Swinging is not for everyone, but those that enjoy the lifestyle are not automatically doomed to failure.